Intimacy ConnectionCheat Sheet

What excites you the most about life?
What is your favourite characteristic about yourself?
How important is a physical connection to you?
What do you think is the most interesting fact about me?
How would you define ‘success’?
Where do you see yourself in five years?
What’s your favourite way to relax?
How often do you reflect on the past?
What are your top three favorite sexual memories of us?
What do you think are the signs of a healthy relationship?
Do you think we have the same values? How do we differ?
What are three strengths you see between us that we possess as a team?
Where do you feel most comfortable?
What is your favourite thing to do together?
What song is the soundtrack to your life?
If you could relive one day with me, which would it be?
Are you able to tell when I’m upset? How?
What value do you admire most about me?
A childhood memory that gives you pain?
Is there something new you want to try together?
Do you enjoy spending time in nature? Why?
Is affection in a relationship important to you? In what ways?
What’s the most loving thing I’ve done for you?
When you’re feeling stressed, what’s the best thing I can do for you?
What’s the best gift I’ve given you?

What was your favourite date that we ever had? What made it so special for you?
What are the 10 things you want to do in life?
What do you think your younger self would think of our relationship?
Do you have a favourite photograph of the two of us?
What have you learned about relationships from your parents?
When was the last time you cried?
How and when did you know we’d make it as a couple?
Have your friendships taught you anything about romantic relationships?
What was the most surprising thing you learned about me?
When was the last time you laughed so much you cried?
Has your relationship taught you anything about yourself?
In what ways do you think we’re similar?
In what ways do you think we’re different?
In what ways do you think we’ve evolved as a couple?
What are three of your happiest memories of our early days together?
When have you felt most proud of me?
What have I taught you?
What makes you feel confident?
Have there been any challenges in our relationship?
If we could travel anywhere together, where would we go?
What’s your most treasured childhood memory?
What book, film, or TV show has had the greatest impact on you?
What is your biggest fear?
How do you think you express love for me?
What was your favourite toy growing up?

BONUS

Is there a song that reminds you of me?
Do you enjoy alone time? Why?
Would you want to time travel with me?

What’s the most supportive thing I’ve done for you?
How important is family to you?

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